You're not usually this slow to catch on, so I'll be clearer for you.
Yes, and yes. As you want to keep up the charade for your parents, if you do wish to have children-- I have no concerns about it, myself, and am in a good place to offer. We are both financially secure, with alternating schedules, and have a healthy relationship even if we are divorced.
So I am offering. Aside from simply getting your parents off of your back, it gives us something we both want. Assuming you do, in fact, want it.
It's quite a serious undertaking, so I'm sure you have valid reasons for avoiding it. But now it's out there; certainly you were hoping for my opinion, to have brought it up at all.
Fertility issues are fairly common between couples, especially those in high-stress job environments-- like yourself. I don't mind it by way of explanation.
[ She hums, thoughtfully, quiet for a moment as she takes a few more bites. ]
I don't see why I can't give you a child in this situation. I could move back, temporarily, and our sensibilities are fairly similar. I don't think co-parenting would be an issue.
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Thank y—what.
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I was fairly clear in my question, so please answer.
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Yes, and yes. As you want to keep up the charade for your parents, if you do wish to have children-- I have no concerns about it, myself, and am in a good place to offer. We are both financially secure, with alternating schedules, and have a healthy relationship even if we are divorced.
So I am offering. Aside from simply getting your parents off of your back, it gives us something we both want. Assuming you do, in fact, want it.
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T-That's.
Well.
I. Isn't this a little sudden?
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Ahhh... I don't think I have an answer? I've never thought about something like that before.
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That's right, that's about it.
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It's quite a serious undertaking, so I'm sure you have valid reasons for avoiding it. But now it's out there; certainly you were hoping for my opinion, to have brought it up at all.
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Fertility issues are fairly common between couples, especially those in high-stress job environments-- like yourself. I don't mind it by way of explanation.
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[makes a face]
Even I have limits for this charade.
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You wouldn't work a job with steadier hours for your child? How terrible.
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[oh god she really really really means it]
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I don't see why I can't give you a child in this situation. I could move back, temporarily, and our sensibilities are fairly similar. I don't think co-parenting would be an issue.
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